The baseball season seems to be accelerating as the weeks roll on. We have our fourth game in eight days tonight. We had practice Friday. Also, I have been sure to pitch to Kelly every day in the front yard. Thirty minutes before last night's game I walked up to Kelly and told her to forget everything. Just relax, hold the bat like this do what comes naturally.
Early in the season, she was pounding everything into the dirt right in front of home plate. I got her to drop the barrel of the bat and swing lower. This worked for several games until she began to swing under everything.
I told her, "Just hit the ball," and I tossed some soft ones right at her by hand. She fended the balls off with her bat, deflecting each throw like she was holding a light saber. "See? You can hit it naturally. Now get back in there, relax and hit the ball."
I threw her another 36 pitches, ran out of time and rushed over to the field when my Mom showed up to watch the little ones (Alex was sick).
The game started and Kelly was moved up a notch in the batting order: up to number six. This is relevant in that she started at number eleven out of twelve. Defensively she has already secured the second base position - something that we are both proud of. She gets very excited about every out she makes in the field, almost more than getting a hit. Offensively I have been working very hard with her to move her up into the elite section of boys who get a hit at every at bat.
On this picture perfect night, I watched her walk up to the batter's box and go through her routine. Swing the bat like an elephant's trunk, down low, getting loose. Working on shifting her weight forward and back with the bat.
"Ready?" She tenses, weight on back foot, bat held loosely overhead. "Ball," I declare before I pull the lever that releases the spring-loaded arm.
I have pitched every pitch to every batter on our team for an entire season. I remember every hit. I remember every agonizing foul tip with three strikes (they get seven pitches, four strikes and you're out). I go through the full emotional spectrum with every kid on every at bat. I want them to get a hit so badly each time they come up. And things do not always go smoothly.
Kelly likes to drive me particularly crazy. She will watch the first pitch go by as instructed (to get a sense of being up there, to see where the ball is flying, to get in the groove) then whiff on two pitches, foul off the fourth and as the pressure mounts, foul off pitch after pitch until finally *CRACK*
The ball zooms past my head and she has her first hit of the night.
There is a particular pleasure in watching her succeed at baseball that I cannot quite describe. Soccer is a universally playable sport. I love it completely. I am very proud of her skills as a soccer player, and to be honest, she is a formidable soccer player. Baseball is a curious beast though. It is not the easiest thing in the world to hit a pitched baseball. Some might say it is one of the hardest things to do in sports.
Add to that the notion that it's a "boy's sport." I have taught Kelly that she can do anything and everything her heart desires. I am of a mind that she can engender the best qualities of both boys and girls, and tackle any subject, sport, or passion that she desires.
There is nothing more empowering than whacking a 40 mph fastball into the outfield when you're eight-years-old and the only girl on a team of talented boys. As I've said before, I love her ability to be a great teammate, a good sport, and fit into any situation. But it gives me a particular thrill to see her excel when I have put her in a challenging situation.
Last night she came to bat four times. She got four hits, knocked in three runs, scored three runs and made a great play at second base scooping up a sizzling ground ball and trotting over to first for the force out. She received a game ball for the second time this season.
Not bad for a little girl. Particularly when I suggested she change her swing right before the game.
I am quiet as her coach; I kiss her on the cheek between innings and give her instruction on her last at bat, or her last fielding effort, but mostly I just stand by when the kids are in the field (and I'm not pitching) and call out instructions to the infield, chat with the other coaches, fret over the game situation.
I don't get a chance to go, "Wow." All she gets is a dusty hug and a smile between innings, and I just whisper wow under my breath.
Last night was one big wow.
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